Our First Vacation

Jeju Island was formed about 1.8 million years ago.  And, more recently (about 7,000 years ago,) its volcanoes once again got a little rambunctious and started creating the most beautiful rock formations here, there and everywhere, just to add a little cherry on top beauty to the place.  

  In our four days there we climbed up to a crater left from an erupted volcano, saw the old women divers known not only for their unique catches, but for their ability to hold their breaths for an inordinate amount of time.  We went in an underground lava tube (quite like a cave, really), hiked to numerous waterfalls and ate black belly pork.  Oh, and we hung out at the pools and the beach.  A lot.  It’s still 93 degrees on Jeju Island and the humidity is well into the 80% points.  Getting back to Daegu brought the temps down into the high 70’s again, heaven!

We decided to go to Jeju on dozens of recommendations and the inconvenient fact that we didn’t have our immigration cards in time to go to China for the holiday of Chuseok.  Funny how the way things work out is often better than the way you planned.  Welcome to my life!

 

 

Donghwasa on Chuseok Holiday

The title of this blog makes it sound like we’ve been involved in either a flashmob sequence or some kind of new fandangled, um, adult video or something kinda like it.  Donghwasa, however, is a compound of Buddhist buildings about a 15 minutes bus ride from here. ( That is, if you take the right bus, don’t have to walk for 40 minutes uphill in humidity that feels like a steam bath with three kiddos – but that’s a story for a different blog.)  Let’s say it took us fifteen minutes to get there on the Express #1 bus, which is oh-so-super-simple to figure out.

As I said, Donghwasa includes many different buildings, some used for worship, some for the monks who live and work there, some for idolization of gigantic figures that are at the same time intimidating and slightly comical (mostly because they are painted in primary colors and are so…plump!)  You can walk around the grounds with your camera, chit chatting about this or that and walk RIGHT in on people praying, lighting candles or taking part in other rituals of Buddhist religion.  This seems a faux pas of some sort, doesn’t it?  Nope.  As long as you remove your shoes, it’s all good.  Everyone is welcome.

We were careful to remove our shoes and to remain respectfully quiet.  It seemed the logical thing to do where people were both walking around with their Pepsis and enjoying their ice cream cones, and bowing down in prayer.  What was most strikingly juxtaposed were the monks meandering around – clearly going about their normal Buddhist monasterial day – amongst visitors from near and far.  I did not take any photographs of them, I felt it somehow over the line of intrusive, since I’d been peering in the doors where they clearly lived their lives – even where they ate and slept.

This building above was built in the year 489, just to help you understand.  There is now a coffee shop to the right of the stairs there.  Not the little shack, I mean it’s in the building, sort of underneath.  There are also two little gift shops where one can purchase any number of beaded bracelets or necklaces or keychains or dishtowels with Buddhist icons printed along the edges.  I never could grasp the feeling of sacredness I was looking for – it was just this side of …what’s the word?  Kitschy? 

There is also a gigantic Buddha statue, built in 1989.  I will include a photo here, along with a couple others, to show you how big it is.  Big.  Buddha.  No.  Joke.  It was a nice trip – a place I would like to revisit, actually.  Since Chuseok is a holiday about giving thanks, I give thanks for my beautiful, enthusiastic, adventurous, happy kids and again for the opportunity to be here and to see things like this.  It’s — what’s that word I read on a blog months ago – one written by a Korean living as an expatriate in America — it’s “breathtakeable.”  That’s it exactly.  It takes my breath away. 

Guy Goes All Teddy Bear

Imagine for a minute a room full of multi-colored helium balloons, trays of food the size of small cars, teddy bears large and small covering every surface of table and floor space,  and more than a dozen happily combusting 6 year olds.  And their mothers.  Doesn’t that sound like Guy’s cup of tea? 

Sadly for him, I had no choice but to go to Costco that afternoon, as I needed ingredients for a dish I was making with my cooking class.  He was stuck with the task of taking Natalie to her first birthday party – Korean style.  I wish I could tell you all about it, but I think it best if he does it himself.  So, enjoy. 

Hello to all of you in blogland.  I won’t attempt to write in a style that compares to Vicki.  She’s good…I’m a hack.  So there I was stuck in TeddyBear Land on the 3rd floor of the nearby mall.  The photos will give you an idea of how it’s was a deranged cross between Chuck E. Cheese’s and Romper Room.  If you’re 6, I suppose it was several thousand square feet of padded, bouncy bliss.  The moms smiled a lot and gestured for me to eat, sit, drink, etc.  But I couldn’t shake that feeling of  “what is he doing here?”  That Sesame Street song kept playing in my head…”one of these things is not like the other…”  Natalie, needless to say, did not have the same experience.  She was completely at home running, jumping, laughing, and insisting that I take pictures of her and all her classmates.  That (the photos) ended up being a nice ice-breaker with the moms.  I’d go out amongst the screaming masses and report back to the um-mas with digital proof that a good time was being had by all.  At one point, one of the moms said to me, “I think you are bored.”    Not knowing what to say…I went and took more pictures.  Pulling balloons off the ceiling for the kids also validated my reason for being at this party.  What would the um-mas have done without me?

In the end, a good time was had by all…even me.  I’ve told students and my own kids that people generally learn best when they are just a bit uncomfortable.  We, the birthday boy’s mom and I, traded some mutually awkward words…for her it was “See you later” and for me it was “kan-sam-nee-dah” (thank you) and “ban-gap-seum-nee-dah” (nice to meet you.)  I’ll be ready for the next party…camera, Korean phrasebook, lots of nodding, and a big, goofy American smile.

 

Here’s the birthday boy with the ladies!